lueskelin tossa fbtä, joku boomer wendy worthman kirjoittaa jotain tästä järjenjättiläisestä ja kissasta. mikä tossa kirjoitustyylissä oikein viehättää amerikkalaisissa kun kirjoitetaan joka viides sana isoilla kirjaimilla huutaen?
Listen- my son’s father and I had problems but I never discussed my issues with my son. EVER. I didn’t bad mouth him in front of his son. This bad mouthing family members or making false accusations, complaints, bla bla is NOT in the best interest of ANYBODY. Children should have stability and talking about your child’s other parent is NOT comforting to a child! Instead it’s upsetting and confusing to a child. They don’t understand your anger OR animosity. They are children. Now moving on here because like I said I don’t plan to and won’t discuss Henna’s charges with ANYONE. I don’t know what happened, why it happened or how it happened. Here’s what I DO know… there’s a child involved here. There’s also a cat and no timeline as to when her father can travel here. Let’s talk about trauma when you’re a child. It’s bad enough to be a child abandoned. I’m one of them. My siblings are too. Our mother didn’t care what happened to us neither did our father OR either of their families! As families of a displaced child in CPS custody, it’s in the best interest of the child waking up each and everyday in a situation he doesn’t know or understand to process and try to cope from day to day. This isn’t a singular frantic event for Nemo. Instead, it’s a repeated traumatic event every single day. A child in a foreign country separated from everything he knows. Lost and afraid. I know this child. I’ve spent time with him. I also thought I knew Henna. She spent time with myself, my twin, my niece, my grandniece and my clients. I have NO idea why this happened. I will NEVER understand why this happened. What I do know is that this boys father loves and cares about him. That Henna’s mother loves and cares about her. That there is conflict that needs to be resolved. I never got along with my sons mother but by damn I tried for years to do so. I didn’t bad mouth her to my son’s father. I didn’t bad mouth my son’s father to him and I spent YEARS in family court to obtain custody! YEARS! It was a living hell. My son loved his dogs, Sampson and Delilah. But after giving the house back to my sons father because I couldn’t afford it, sadly I also had to give my sons pets back too because I had to move to an apartment and had no place for them. My son’s father gave those dogs away which greatly affected my son. He loved those dogs and had grown up with them. Now we have a cat, Kikka. We have no timeline as to when Henna’s mother can travel here to obtain this cat. We have a father focused on taking Nemo home and we have an investigation by CPS of “what is in the best interest of this child.” A child in a foreign country with a mother incarcerated with the most serious charges I’ve seen yet on any foreign client with children in this country with an expired visa. Over the years there were three other mothers who also had similar charges but certainly not nearly as serious! I found their family members on social media. Those children are home and thriving. Those mothers are still incarcerated IN TEXAS. Anyone thinking or believing that someone in this country is extradited to another country where prisons are similar to hotels because it would be more comfortable for them and/or their families is unaware that Texas is a “you play you stay state” needs to wake up to the reality that Texas will keep you here. You will do your sentence here. You will not be extradited because it’s “convenient.” The benefit to a child traumatized is a community of love and support. This would require putting aside hard feelings or animosity and focusing on what is actually important would be THE BEST INTEREST OF THE CHILD! Get it together. Grow up. Focus on what matters. The child didn’t choose this and has no say as he waits frightened and unaware of his future. Moving on, my sister has rescue cats. Catso is a healthy and friendly cat. Street Cat is not friendly and was so ugly after being burned, abused and having his tail cut off that he was moved to the chambers where his fate less than 24 hours before Makenna saw him would have been final. My husband and I lost Foxy a few years ago and that loss was so devastating to him that he will not even consider having another pet. I cannot keep Kikka indefinitely in my own home. The landlord cannot keep having Ben go over and care for Kikka either. He now has a house he cannot rent because Henna and Nemo’s things are in the home AS IS THE CAT, Kikka. I will take this cat to a vet who has not seen a vet since arriving in the U.S. but I cannot keep this cat indefinetly at my home. Cindy can’t. Is there anyone in the WF area who can foster this cat until arrangements have been made to transport it? Please contact me.
